Benjamin Albert Fenton

  • Born: January 28, 2011
  • Died: March 15, 2013
  • Location: New Richland, Minnesota

Bruss-Heitner Funeral Homes

255 2nd Ave SW
Wells, MN 56097

Tel. (507) 553-3124

Tribute & Message From The Family


Benjamin Albert Fenton, age 2, of New Richland, MN died Friday, March 15, 2013 . A Memorial Service will be held SATURDAY, APRIL 6, 2013 at Vista Covenant Church in rural New Richland, MN, at 2:00 PM. Burial will be at Trinity Cemetery prior to the service (1:00 PM). Bruss-Heitner Funeral Home in Wells, MN is in charge of arrangements. Please see www.brussheitner.com to leave online condolences.
Benjamin Albert Fenton was born January 28, 2011 in Rochester, MN the son of Al (Albert) and Shelley (Ehrp) Fenton.
Benjamin is survived by his parents, Al and Shelley Fenton of New Richland; sister Cory Johnson and 2 nephews: Marshall and Kendrick of Iowa; grandparents, David and Diane Fenton of Garner, IA and Brenda Graff of New Richland; aunts and uncles, Leonard (Sara) Fenton of Mason City, IA, David Fenton of Alexandria, Minnie (special friend Scott) Jefferson of Mason City, IA, Stacie Ehrp of Hartland, Kristin (special friend DJ) Laurel of Waconia; cousins, Jessica, Madeline and Emerson Fenton, Faith and Grace Fenton, and Nolan, Madeline and Collin Harris.
He was preceded in death by his brother Dylan Johnson and grandfather, Ken Martin.


Condolence & Memory Journal

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love and prayers always.

Posted by mary^j^benny - davao   September 14, 2013

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love and prayers to all.,have a nice day.

Posted by mary^j^benny - davao   August 27, 2013

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love and prayers

Posted by mary^j^benny - davao   August 21, 2013

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love and prayers.

Posted by mary^j^benny - davao   July 03, 2013

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Love and prayers always.

Posted by mary^j^benny - davao   June 24, 2013

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hello angel praying for you.

Posted by mary^j^benny    May 12, 2013

I just happened across the news of Bennie's death today by accident and felt that I had to write to you to express how my heart hurts for you. He is such a beautiful baby boy. What joy he must have brought to you! It it with faith that I believe Benjamin is rejoicing in heaven with his brother. I pray for your family that although you will never heal that you will be secure in the fact that its possible to be reuinited and whole with your boys once again. I pray for strength for you, Mom and Dad, to bring joy to your daughter until you're all together once again. -- With deepest sympathy---

Just another parent in Iowa

Posted by Lisa Larkey - Solon, IA - none   May 08, 2013

I'm so sorry to hear of Benjamin's passing. He's beautiful. I lost a daughter too, back in 2008, and wanted to leave a little message here to let you know I'm thinking of you. My deepest, deepest condolences and warmest hugs to you. <3>

Posted by Jeanne - North Mankato, MN   April 30, 2013

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You are both in my thoughts and prayers every day...

Posted by Mary Thomsen - Wells, MN - friend   April 01, 2013

Shelley and Al our hearts are very heavy for you both and we will continue to pray for you. Our deepest sympathy to Benny's loving and wonderful parents.

Posted by Sandee and George Vaske - Burt, IA - Friend   March 31, 2013

My heart goes out to you in the loss of your son. I took care of Benjamin on several occasions shortly after he was born. Your story has weighed heavily on my mind. I remember the presence that you had, Shelley. It was a beautiful thing to see you holding Benjamin. I remmeber you had a beautiful picture of your older son displayed proudly in Benjamin's room. Know that we think of your family as you mourn your little angel.

Posted by brandy - rochester, MN - none   March 28, 2013

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You are in my prayers,Angel.

Posted by mary^j^benny - Davao City.philippines   March 27, 2013

You do not know us but we feel every bit of your pain, we hurt with you. We also have lost two boys to accidents and our 5 year old was a similar farm related trauma. Do not blame, it was an accident and use all your strength to hold each other. The hell you are going through is tough...just try to stay strong for each other and for your parents. They hurt too. May God hold you in his hands at this very difficult time. We will keep you in our prayers.

Posted by Barb and Doug Murra - Buffalo Center, IA   March 26, 2013

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Shelley,

I wish I had something that could help the pain you are feeling. I am at such a loss for words. As difficult as it may be, please try to see all the people around that care for you and your family. Realize you are not alone. They are, .... we all are, .... I am always there with you even if not there in person.
You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Posted by Jesse Wittnebel - Madison, MN   March 26, 2013

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My heart aches for you, Shelley and Al. I know the pain of losing a child. Our little boy, Derek, was killed in a farm accident too. I can't imagine you going through this twice in such a short amount of time. Dylan was such a sweetheart and Bennie looks so much like my Derek. My thoughts and prayers go out to you. I think of you all the time. Please know that God is with our kids holding them in His loving arms. And know that God is and always will be with you through all of this.

Posted by Sharon Malakowsky - Hartland, MN - Friend   March 23, 2013

Tears of sadness come to my eyes as I think of this little one's life that was taken too early. I'm sure he was a blessing to all who met him; hold on to those thoughts. Praying prayers of comfort during this time. So sorry for your loss.

Posted by Kristin Overland - Albert Lea, MN   March 23, 2013

I am so sorry to hear about little Benny. My heart breaks for your family. I could not imagine losing two children.but your family is in my thoughts and prayers at this difficult time. the Fenton family knows me as I grew up with them

Posted by Shelly Halfpop - Eagle grove, IA   March 23, 2013

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My heart aches for you! I pray that you feel God's loving arms wrapped around you, comforting you as you mourn. May God's peace be with you as you begin to heal, yet again, from such a precious loss and may you find comfort in knowing that Dylan and Bennie are playing together in Heaven and sharing with each other how blessed they were to have such wonderful parents while here on Earth. Peace be with you Al and Shelley.
Hugs,
Peg

Posted by Peg Mastin - Buffalo Center, IA - friend   March 22, 2013

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Fentons-
Sometimes there are no words. I have been so sad to hear of this news. My sister in law and a friend know you guys. To lose a child is a parents worst nightmare, but I can't imagine the loss of two. It's a hard road to travel to bare the pain and loss. We lost a child and it never makes sense. I have to believe that our lives are truly mapped out for us and that our children are with us in spirit and will be waiting for us. Fly high sweet Benny!

Posted by Jenny Hendrickson - Freeborn, MN   March 22, 2013

You don't know me but I feel we are connected. We're part of that family that lost a child way too soon; our precious Carter also passed away when he was two. And you have lost two children; I can only imagine. I am so sorry your family is having to endure this pain; not just once but twice. Your family and Bennie have been on my mind and in my heart since this tragic accident happened. Please know I hold you all in my thoughts and prayers as Jesus holds Bennie in his arms. I know I know you just want Bennie back in your arms. I hope and pray you are able to find some sort of peace and comfort. Know you are not alone. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers and will always remember a beautiful blue eyed blonde haired baby boy I never got to meet but will hold in my heart forever. Thank you for sharing that beautiful photo of him.
With sympathy and love,
Carter's grandma gayle

Posted by gayle cook - albert lea, MN   March 21, 2013

You don't know me but I feel we are connected. We're part of that family that lost a child way too soon; our precious Carter also passed away when he was two. And you have lost two children; I can only imagine. I am so sorry your family is having to endure this pain; not just once but twice. Your family and Bennie have been on my mind and in my heart since this tragic accident happened. Please know I hold you all in my thoughts and prayers as Jesus holds Bennie in his arms. I know I know you just want Bennie back in your arms. I hope and pray you are able to find some sort of peace and comfort. Know you are not alone. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers and will always remember a beautiful blue eyed blonde haired baby boy I never got to meet but will hold in my heart forever. Thank you for sharing that beautiful photo of him.
With sympathy and love,
Carter's grandma gayle

Posted by gayle cook - albert lea, MN   March 21, 2013

You don't know me but I feel we are connected. We're part of that family that lost a child way too soon; our precious Carter also passed away when he was two. And you have lost two children; I can only imagine. I am so sorry your family is having to endure this pain; not just once but twice. Your family and Bennie have been on my mind and in my heart since this tragic accident happened. Please know I hold you all in my thoughts and prayers as Jesus holds Bennie in his arms. I know I know you just want Bennie back in your arms. I hope and pray you are able to find some sort of peace and comfort. Know you are not alone. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers and will always remember a beautiful blue eyed blonde haired baby boy I never got to meet but will hold in my heart forever. Thank you for sharing that beautiful photo of him.
With sympathy and love,
Carter's grandma gayle

Posted by gayle cook - albert lea, MN   March 21, 2013

You don't know me but I feel we are connected. We're part of that family that lost a child way too soon; our precious Carter also passed away when he was two. And you have lost two children; I can only imagine. I am so sorry your family is having to endure this pain; not just once but twice. Your family and Bennie have been on my mind and in my heart since this tragic accident happened. Please know I hold you all in my thoughts and prayers as Jesus holds Bennie in his arms. I know I know you just want Bennie back in your arms. I hope and pray you are able to find some sort of peace and comfort. Know you are not alone. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers and will always remember a beautiful blue eyed blonde haired baby boy I never got to meet but will hold in my heart forever. Thank you for sharing that beautiful photo of him.
With sympathy and love,
Carter's grandma gayle

Posted by gayle cook - albert lea, MN   March 21, 2013

Shelly and Al,
Please know that we are praying for you both. "Cast your burden on the Lord, And He shall sustain you..." Ps 55:22

Posted by Patrick and Penny Wiedemeier - Alden, IA - friend   March 21, 2013

I know I don't know you but I can't get your family out of my head and heart. Everytime I look at this beautiful little boy my heart aches his picture makes me smile and cry at the same time. I have prayed continuously for your family. I really wish I could take away the pain you must be feeling. Please know that this little boy will forever be In our hearts.

Posted by Joni Simon - Lewiston, MN - Fellow farm mom   March 21, 2013

Our thoughts and prayers go out to Benjamin's family! What a sad day R.I.P.

Posted by Richard D. Simons - Coon Rapids, MN - None   March 21, 2013

Benny was a miracle. And I am so blessed to have known him. I remember last summer (when the picture was taken) that I held up one of the decoration turtles and told Benny that the turtle loved him. After that Benny kept smoochin on it and petting it. After that, every time we were on the deck, he would play with the turtles.
Benny also loved to dance. And it would crack us up. He was so adorable and funny. He definitely made family gatherings so much better.
Benny will always be in our hearts along with Dylan.
We are praying Shelley and Al. Love you both so much.

Posted by Samantha Chizek - Auduboon, IA - Cousin   March 21, 2013

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I am speechless......no words can express how my heart goes out to you (Shelley) and family. You are in my thought and prayers.

Posted by Julie Williams - Rake, IA - friend   March 21, 2013

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He is a cutie it sucks that his life was taken early

Posted by alicia - waseca, MN   March 21, 2013

Your family is in my thoughts n prays so sorry for the loss of the little one..

Posted by Erika - algona, IA - cory's friend   March 21, 2013

I am so very sorry for yalls loss, I can't even imagine. I pray for God ho be with you in your time of need!!

Posted by Cathyleen Hendricks - Livermore , IA - Cory Johnson, son's grandma    March 21, 2013

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To Al, Shelly and to all those you have touch Benny. We ask that the Lord grants us love, peace, grace, mercy, and the knowledge that you are with the Holy Father, and all those who have gone before us. That you are safe in His arms and will be until we are all gathered together in His Kingdom. I had a dream the other day of Dylan holding Benny in his arms and pointing to something off in the distance. They had a golden glow around them and they were both smiling. I know it was the Lord's way of letting me know they are both O.K. and taking care of each other. Just before I woke, I could here Dylan say to Benny, "Tell Mommy I Love You" and Benny whispered "Love You". I see this as a sign that there is a plan He has set out before use. However difficult it may be, there is a reason and a time to everything under Heaven.

We love you all and pray for healing everyday,
Stephanie, Troy, Malachi and Nehum

Posted by Stephanie (Fenton) Klemm - Minneota, MN - Cousin   March 20, 2013

Bennie's family,

I am so heartbroken for you all. I feel so blessed to have had an angel dance, laugh, eat, drink, and be merry in my home less than 2 months ago. Now he
is in the ultimate mansion making merry.
Jealous of angels, Denise and Jacob Larson

Posted by Denise Larson - Norwood, MN - friend of Kristin Laurel   March 20, 2013

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Bennie has entered our eternal home above-- beyond the gateknowing he in care of our Savior absent from many loves ones. Sorry to hear this sad news.

Posted by Annette Boelman - Goodell, IA - friend   March 20, 2013

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Go with God you little angel. I am blessed to have witnessed the miracle of your birth and what a joy you brought to so many hearts in such little time you were with us.
My hopes and prayers for healing are with the family members during this most sorrowful time.

Posted by Djuna Roberts - Asheville, NC - Auntie   March 20, 2013

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I am so sorry to hear of the passing of Ben. You are in our thoughts and prayers!

Posted by Carla (Anderson) Plum - Omaha, NE - Friend of Steph Klemm   March 20, 2013

Since hearing of your very tragic loss, you have been on my mind almost continously. My heart goes out to you, Albert, Shelley and all the other family members of Bennie. Your grief must be unimaginable. I will keep you in my prayers during this very difficult time. Stay strong and God will lead you out of this darkness.

Posted by Audrey Fenton - Sioux City , IA - great aunt of Albert   March 20, 2013

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At this time of sadness, may you find strength in God and comfort in the warm and loving thoughts of friends and family. With Heartfelt Sympathy.

Posted by Jo-Ann Pacenta - Somers, NY   March 20, 2013

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I am so sorry to hear about your precious Benjamin, God be with you all. Holding you all so close and warmly in my heart.

Posted by Rose gma to angel Brittany Syfert - New Plymouth, ID   March 20, 2013

Al and Shelley-
There are just no words... My heart goes out to you and your family.

Posted by Amber Stricker - Albert Lea, MN - Friend   March 20, 2013

My heart, prayers & thoughts go out to each & everyone of you!!! I am so sorry, please let me know if there is anything you need or anything I can do or help with.

Posted by Sherry Davis(Morin) - Klemme, IA - friend   March 20, 2013

I am so so sorry Al. U are in my prayers! Love u

Posted by Angela Heiden - Arcadia, IA - Friend   March 20, 2013

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My heart goes out to your family for the loss of your beautiful, precious baby Benjamin. There is nothing to compare with the loss of a child, and only those who have known such a tragedy can truly understand your sorrow. May the love of family and friends help carry you through your grief. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
God Bless

Posted by Teri Drebit Mom to Jaime - NJ   March 20, 2013

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I am so sad to hear about the loss of your Baby boy, may god be with you all and keep you strongs hugs, love and prayers to your family

Posted by Christin e Mom to Aaron Wilkinson - NJ   March 19, 2013

Al and Shelley- may god bless you and ur family on this tough time of losing ur child and little best buddy. God will take care of those two children and one day wait for u both two to arrive with them. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the family. Take one day at a time

Posted by Carrie Morin and family. - Garner, IA - friends of the Fenton family   March 19, 2013

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praying .for Benjamin.

Posted by mary^j^benny - Davao City.philippines   March 19, 2013

My heart aches for your family.
Thoughts and prayers go out to your family.

Posted by Tiffany (Johnson) Puckett - Jefferson, GA - Friend of Fenton family   March 19, 2013

So sorry for you're loss. Your family will be in my prayers!

Posted by Kathy - IA   March 19, 2013

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My thoughts and prayers are with this family--my God help you with this pain.

Posted by Terry - Clarks Grove, MN   March 19, 2013

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My heart goes out to all of Benjamin's family. Having lost a child myself, I know the daily pain they will suffer for the rest of their lives. May our Lord comfort you and give you strength for each day, and may you visualize Benjamin in His loving arms.

Love, hugs, and prayers,
Saralyn

Posted by Saralyn Smith - Dodge City, KS - Another Grieving Parent   March 19, 2013

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To The Dear Parent's & family.
My thoughts & prayers are with you at this very upsetting time.
I hope those precious memories help to heal your broken hearts.
God please give Benjamin's family all your love & comfort.
Benjamin Deep in their hearts you will always stay.
Loved & remembered everyday GB you precious child.
Sending my love & prayers to all the family.
From Joan Taylor & Family,

Posted by JOAN TAYLOR    March 19, 2013

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I am so sorry for your loss. Thinking of you at this very difficult time.

Posted by Peggy Williamson - Glenville, MN   March 19, 2013

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You don't know me, but I wanted to send my deepest condolences.
I am thinking and praying for your family.

Posted by Heidi - Rushford, MN   March 19, 2013

May Gods comfort be with you. All of our prayers to you.

Posted by Clint & Holly Miller - Albert Lea, MN   March 19, 2013

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May Benjamin rest peacefully in the loving arms of God. May the memories held deep within your heart help to soothe your spirit at this difficult time. God Bless.

Posted by Family of Wm. Scott & Samantha Myers - Grayling, MI   March 19, 2013

There are just no words that can take away the pain of losing your beautiful precious baby boy. The loss of a child is hardest thing a parent can go through and you just lost your other young son so recently. My heart aches for you, and I am praying that God will sustain you during this difficult time. Hopefully, in a small way it helps, knowing that so many care and wish they could take away this awful pain you are dealing with. No parent should have to go through this let alone twice within such a short period of time. You have my very, very deep and heartfelt sympathy.

Posted by Mary Stenzel - New Richland, MN   March 19, 2013

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Shelley and Al, I was there the day Bennie was born. I was there when Dylan died. I am so sorry to hear what happened to Bennie. My heart breaks and my faith has been shaken one more time. I will hold you all in prayer and never forget the journey we have traveled. If you need an ear to listen, please know I am here for you. May you find strength in your family, friends, and loved ones during this time. Love and Hugs--Dixie

Posted by Rev. Dixie Laube - La Crosse, WI - Chaplain from Mayo 2009-2010   March 19, 2013

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Al and Shelly,
I haven't seen you for awhile, I can't imagine what you are going thru. I want to cry with you, Only the strength of our Lord can get you thru this, know that so many people are thinking of you. my deepest sympathy to your family. Dylan and Bennie will be together waiting to see you again.

Posted by Annette Kahler - Buffalo Center, IA - friend   March 19, 2013

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Shelly, Al, and family,

My heart is heavy and saddened after hearing of the loss of Benjamin. There are no words to express what you may be going thru, know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. May God grant you strength and comfort in the days, weeks, months, and years ahead.

My Sincerest Condolences,

Ramona Torkelson

Posted by Ramona Torkelson - Kasson, MN - Friend   March 19, 2013

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Lord, take Benny into Your arms and welcome him into paradise, where there will the fullness of peace and joy with Your Son and the Holy Spirit forever and ever. Also, watch over Shelley and Al and their family and help them through this tragic event. Our hearts and prayers are with the family.

Posted by Jeff & Roxanne Olson - Algona, IA - Friend   March 18, 2013


Family Album

Our first visit to see the family 1 day after Benjamin was born.
Red Lobster after getting a haircut
My precious Benjamin. Mommy misses you so much!

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